Sunday, January 8, 2012

Rhett

After I did a post about Lucy a couple of months ago, I meant to do one for each of the boys as well.  I didn't quite get to it, but I managed to compile a bunch of pictures of Rhett throughout the latter part of the year, and now I'm finally going to post them.

Rhett is such a fun little boy.  Ever since he was a baby he has had a fiery little personality.  He's our screamer and our hitter (and kicker/puncher/scratcher), but he's also snuggly and sensitive and quite thoughtful at times.

During the past several months his speech has just blossomed.  At his 3-year check-up I was concerned enough about the way he spoke that I brought it up with the doctor who, thankfully, assured me that he was totally normal.  (My concern was due to the observation that Benjamin's speech at the same age was far more advanced than Rhett's.)

He's just growing up so quickly.  I'm trying to hang on to every moment because I know they are so fleeting.

It's hard to take a picture of him without this happening:

June 8, 2011


I just love this face.
June 12, 2011
Rhett wore these sunglasses almost non-stop for several months.  Even in church.  It only stopped because they were left at a friend's house for a long time.
June 25, 2011

Rhett turned three in June and at the time was really into Toy Story.  I'm glad that he didn't mind this lame-o Toy Story 3 cake I made.  In fact, he seemed pretty thrilled with it.

June 28, 2011




July 3, 2011

He still really likes puzzles.  Tonight we did several together, but he can usually do them on his own.
July 5, 2011

He's a goofball.  Here he's modeling Paul's hat in during our road trip to Utah.  Below he's pretending to sleep.
July 8, 2011

He was a trooper on our Utah adventures this summer.  He loved his water back pack.  When Benjamin started preschool this fall and had his own backpack, Rhett wanted to wear his water back pack around everywhere for a while.
July 13, 2011

Not sure what to say about this one.  He used a stamp that was a prize from the library's summer reading program to decorate his face.  Maybe it's a coincidence that he applied the color so strategically?
July 28, 2011


Mariners game
July 30, 2011

Driving the tractor at the fair.
August 20, 2011

Self portrait
August 24, 2011

This was not the first time he dumped a mountain of baby powder on the carpet.  For days (weeks?) powder would poof out when you walked across this spot.
August 28, 2011

Rhett and Benjamin have really become good buddies.  It's so fun to see them playing with each other on (fairly) equal terms.  I think Rhett really looks up to his brother.  He wants to do everything Benjamin does.  Size-wise he's really catching up.  He's pretty tall for his age.
September 5, 2011

Little blonde boy.
September 8, 2011

He loves to use my phone to take pictures.
September 19, 2011

On a preschool field trip to the apple orchard.
October 6, 2011

 He loved riding his bike last year (when the weather was warm).  The yellow helmet sure didn't hurt.
October 8, 2011

He still loves to swing in the baby swings, even though he's perfectly capable of using a normal swing.
October 14, 2011

For Halloween we based our kids' costume theme off of Lucy, who we dressed as Lucy van Pelt from Peanuts.  It made perfect sense to cast Rhett as Charlie Brown, with his light hair and love of yellow.  Even though I think he had little idea who Charlie Brown is, he was sure proud of being "Charwie Brown."

October 31, 2011

I was quite impressed with his gingerbread house this year.  Everything he did was so deliberate.
December 22, 2011


He was a great helper when I made butter cookies for Christmas.  He put in the "pokey things" and tried to put as much "snow" on top as possible.

December 23, 2011

A couple more things about Rhett:

Recently he has taken to carrying around a yellow toy duck that jingles and quacks.  He brings it in the car when we go places and likes to take it to bed at night.  On a couple of occasions he has woken in the night, distressed because he couldn't find the duck.  This is not new behavior, just a new object.  I've always been grateful that the boys didn't have one thing they couldn't be without.  No blankets, no binkies, no teddy bears.  But Rhett... he's so funny.  At different times throughout his life he has latched on to different objects.  (Maybe this is totally normal.  I don't know.)  At one time he wouldn't go to bed or take a nap without holding our two copies of Goodnight Moon.  For another period of time he had to have this little stuffed green monster that my mom gave him.  Sometimes it's various matchbox or "Cars" cars.

We've mentioned before his obsession with "3."  Right now he wants 3 blankets when he goes to sleep.  If we're giving out food or treats he wants three.  Not more than three.  If you try to give him more, even if it's candy, he'll get upset and give you back the excess.

He loves to say our meal prayers.  But bedtime prayers are another story.  He simply says, "Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for this day, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen!"

When we go to Costco he only wants to sit on the "Costco" side of the shopping cart.  Never "Wholesale."  It's a good thing he sits by Lucy, who doesn't care.  When Benjamin and Rhett sat in the cart there was often squabbling about this issue, and I think Rhett usually ended up on the "Wholesale" side.

Both boys like to talk to Paul on the phone when he's on his way home from work.  The other day Rhett was upset when Benjamin hung up because Rhett wanted to talk some more.  He cried and screamed until Paul got home.  So Paul went back to the bedroom to change and called Rhett on my cell phone.  After only a second's hesitation, Rhett started  chatting away, just as if Paul was still driving home, telling him about his day and what I was doing in the kitchen right then, when he knew Dada was just in the other room.  It was both funny and sweet.

He recently discovered his ability to use the computer.  After months of making Benjamin navigate PBS Kids and "letter games" for him, he can now do it on his own.  He was taking such liberties with the computer that I finally had to put a password on it so he couldn't just help himself anytime he wanted.

He's potty trained!  He has done amazingly well.  He spent a few days naked from the waist down and I can't think of a single time he had an accident.  No accidents with underwear either.  I love it.  I'm glad we waited and didn't try to force him into it before he was ready.

Rhett sure keeps us on our toes.  He brings a unique spirit to our home and we are having so much fun (between tantrums) being his parents.

I love you, Rhett Rhett.

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Christmas morning snapshots

Let's wrap up Christmas posts, shall we?  (I'm so annoyed with myself for posting Christmas stuff in February--Where the heck did February come from anyway?)


Benjamin is wearing one of the beach robes I made for the boys and displaying his awesome new Cars 2 Legos.  (Rhett's robe is white with YELLOW trim.  I had to cut up one of our own towels to make his sleeves because I ran out of new towels.  Both hoods are lined with superhero/comic book type exclamations on flannel--Pow!  Wham!  You get the idea.)

 

Lucy may or may not have eaten the peel off of one or two of the oranges.
 

In case you didn't know, BYU apparel is always a hit with Paul.
 

 
 
 

Until next Christmas...

Saturday, December 24, 2011

'Twas the Night Before Christmas...

While the boys were in bed dreaming of sugarplums, Lucy was taking matters into her own hands (literally).  When I got to her she had an entire cordial cherry in her mouth and she did not appreciate the interruption.


But Santa didn't mind.


His letters to the kids were neatly tucked into their stockings.


And the jolly old elf left these little friends for us to enjoy.

We enjoyed a blessed, bountiful Christmas, full of joy and appreciation for what we have.

(Don't mind the lower portion of the tree, whose lights gave out days before Christmas; or the helter-skelter decorations, rearranged again, and again, and again by little hands; or the star leaning to one side; or the smudges on the mirror; or... I keep finding things to add.  Please just appreciate our imperfections.)

Friday, December 23, 2011

Remembering Christmas: The Treats

 
 Gingerbread cookies

 
 "Gingerbread" houses

Butter cookies

Peanut brittle (my first time--it might just be a new tradition)

And much (too much?) more!

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Merry Christmas!

If you are reading our blog but didn't get this Christmas message in your mailbox (or inbox) it's because we don't have your address (or don't know that you care about what goes on with us--if you do, you can tell us)!


Dear Family and Friends,

This was an eventful year for our family.  Here are a few highlights:

In March we welcomed Lucy to our family.  She was born only 30 minutes after arriving at the hospital, weighing nearly 10 lbs.  Lucy has been a great joy to each of us including her brothers who adore her.

Paul has enjoyed many, many hours gardening and doing yard work.  His successful custom tomato-structure was his gardening highlight, as well as adding five fruit trees.  He has been blessed to stay very busy at work with Dawson Construction.  When he’s not at work or home, he is spending time with the young men of our church.

Vicky spends most of her time with the kids.  She still enjoys sewing when she can and has had fun making a few clothes for Lucy.  She makes dinner from scratch every night and is not afraid to try out new recipes on her family.  Vicky and Benjamin have been participating in a co-op preschool with a few other moms from church.

Benjamin, now 5, loves riding his bike, playing GeoTrax, spending time with cousins, operating our computer, and going to preschool.  He has been a great helper around the house and yard, and especially with Lucy.  Benjamin joined in Jimmermania with Paul.  He’s just beginning to learn to read.

Rhett, now 3, loves everything “three” and “yellow.”  He cried at Thanksgiving when he learned Vicky had not, despite his request, made a lemon pie.  He loves riding his bike and doing everything Benjamin does.  Rhett enjoys counting, especially numbers with threes: 3, 13, 300…  He is alternately very sweet and very sassy.

Lucy, now 9 months, has “blueberry eyes” (according to Rhett), is quick to smile, and is a real charmer anywhere she goes.  Paul has a huge soft spot for her.  Lucy’s speedy crawling skills have destroyed many a train track.  Her brothers dote on her.  She has been a peaceful child who continues to bring great joy into all of our lives.

We are grateful for the many blessings the Lord has given us this year and rejoice in celebrating His birth.  May you all feel His love this Christmas and in the coming year.

Love,

Paul, Vicky, Benjamin, Rhett, and Lucy Duersch
 
 

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Counting Down to Christmas

Paper trees advent calendar on the mantel.  (Will not do again.  Doesn't hold up well to 3-and 5-year old boys.  Go figure.)


Licking the beater.


Ward Christmas party.


Our little wise man with his best buddies Payton and Caleb.


Decorating sugar cookies for our neighbors.

(There's a cookie under there...)

Lucy being cute.

Friday, December 16, 2011

Wrapping up 2011: Sad things first

Don't worry, it's not tragic sad.  But there has been a bit of a cloud over our house since mid-December.

Our good friends, the Katschkes, took advantage of a new opportunity and relocated to Panaca, Nevada.  It's always hard to say goodbye to friends, and it was very hard to say goodbye to these ones.  Paul and Nate were in the Construction Management program together at BYU and our families moved to Bellingham at the same time.  They rented a house down the street from the one we rented for a while, and Nate helped Paul get a job with Dawson Construction after some miserable months with another company.  After we bought a house, Nate and Cassie bought one several months later in the same neighborhood.  For nearly a year we enjoyed close proximity to these great people.

Benjamin and Rhett are especially fond of their friends Jada and Payton.  Here they are a few days before the move.


(No picture of Shaylee, but I sure thought she and Lucy would become good friends.)

Let me tell you, I have (hopefully) learned my lesson about taking friends for granted.  As their departure became imminent, Cassie and I repeatedly said to each other, "Why didn't we have dinner more often?  Why didn't we hang out more often?  Why, why, why?"  I guess it wasn't till they were leaving that we really appreciated what their family was to ours.

We said several goodbyes in the hours leading up to their final departure.  The night before the big move I couldn't resist bringing the kids over one more time while Paul was already there with the scouts helping to finish loading the truck and clean up.  It was late at night, but the kids were all still excited to play with each other.

Here's Rhett getting in one last game of hide-and-seek.


The hugs goodbye.



And the late-at-night, not-so-flattering picture of our two families.  (Why didn't we take more pictures over the years??)


This post really doesn't do justice to all the feelings we have about the Katschkes and their move.  It would be insufficient to try.  While we wish them the best, we miss them daily and are looking forward to the summer when we will hopefully be able to get together in Utah.